October has been a month of reflection, renewal, and commitment to a healthier lifestyle.

Halloween is over and as we wrap up #SoberOctober and start thinking about THANKSGIVING

on the horizon (hard to believe it’s almost here!), let's delve deeper into a mindset that can

strengthen our commitment to sobriety and intentional living: Gratitude.

Today, I want to delve deeper into what I consider to be one of the most powerful and transformative impacts of sobriety: building self-esteem and resilience.

Here are a few ways that sobriety can help build self-esteem and resilience:

Building self-esteem and resilience takes time and effort, but it's a journey well worth taking. Observing #SoberOctober can be that first step for you, just like it has been for so many others. Here are a few tips to help you on your way:

One of the things I’m see a lot this #SoberOctober is the concept of “sober curious”. I love this because 1) curiosity is so often a healthy mental state, and 2) this is a great low-pressure, judgment-free approach to examining your relationship with alcohol (and other substances). So I want to join the Sober Curious conversation today! I hope you will too.

Even though September (National Suicide Prevention Month) is behind us, we’re still highlighting mental health and trying to educate the public (that’s you, dear reader!) about suicide prevention. This week I want to talk about the significance of human connection on mental health, and its power to interrupt a mental health spiral that might otherwise end in tragedy.

September is National Suicide Prevention Month, and the goal of those observing and promoting the event is to both raise awareness about the dangers and signs, and ways you can help, among friends and family members of individuals who may be suffering and to provide a surge of visible support to struggling individuals who simply do not know where to turn for help.

We’ve been talking about Blended Families lately. And mostly I’ve been talking about it from a Parenting point of view. But there are other relationships in a blended family, right? I won’t go into the couple relationship right now– that is a whole other topic! But what about the SIBLINGS? Sibling relationships can be a little challenging even under the BEST circumstances. Most parents dream of their kids being best friends, but the changing dynamics of a blended family may feel difficult to navigate. It can feel like there is so much at stake! Making sure that the love between the new couple trickles down to the kids, too, is a key part of building a new Family. 

I do have two really solid tips I can give you that will help, and they balance each other out.

In today's digital age, social media is woven into the fabric of daily life, but for young children, it often poses more risks than rewards. From unrealistic beauty standards to the lurking dangers of cyberbullying, the potential harm is undeniable. While I’m not here to wage war against platforms like TikTok, I’m joining the growing chorus of mental health experts urging parents to delay social media use until at least age 13. But here’s the key: this isn’t about taking a heavy-handed approach. Instead, let’s explore how we can prepare our children to navigate this online world with wisdom, empathy, and healthy boundaries.

As a mom, I want what is best for my daughters… In a blended family, fostering independence, self-confidence, and self-love in these girls is a huge priority for me. Girls and women still face major challenges to mental/emotional health and personal success, even though things are better for our girls than they were for ourselves, and our mothers and aunts. Props to the women who’ve paved the way so far, and I’m especially loving the most recent vibe of absolutely amazing women in the headlines. Leadership, body positivity, mental health self-care– all of this is on display and I am so excited about it. BUT we definitely still have a long way to go. 

So jump on my bandwagon today, and let’s talk about some practical habits you can develop to be a role model and a full-blown cheer squad for the young girls in your life!

Stepparenting, a topic very much on my mind lately, (if you haven’t already noticed) is uniquely tough. Let’s take a look at a few of the unique challenges that stepparents face and talk about some strategies for meeting and overcoming those challenges.

Remember when we discussed the importance of emotional support for children in blended families? As we explored in our previous post, providing a safe and understanding environment for children to express their feelings is crucial for their well-being. This emotional support can come from both biological parents and stepparents, creating a more nurturing and supportive atmosphere for everyone involved.

Building on that foundation, let's delve deeper into the specific emotional challenges children may face in blended families and how to address them effectively.

Blending families can be a complex process, especially when high-functioning ambitious families with a lot of moving parts. These children & adults,  who typically exhibit strong cognitive and adaptive skills, might still face unique challenges in adjusting to new family dynamics. Successful integration demands careful planning and evidence-based interventions to foster harmony and positive outcomes for all family members. In this blog, we'll explore effective strategies grounded in the latest mental health research to assist in blending families where high-functioning children are a key component.

We’re talking about diagnosing and healing from BURNOUT this summer– partly because it’s a part of my personal journey right now, and partly because it is, or soon will be, a national epidemic that we would be foolish not to address, as mental health professionals. Today I want to talk about rekindling your vision after burnout.

Professional burnout is a significant issue affecting many adults today. Especially professional parents. Here is an accessible quick guide on signs & symptoms, plus eight ways to cope with suspected or diagnosed extreme professional burnout.

I know this day is usually reserved for Dads– whether we are celebrating them, mourning them, dealing with their absence or abuse, or contemplating how to be the dad you want to be, BUT. Today I thought I would turn that upside down for a minute and address single moms. The parents who are doing their best to be BOTH Mom and Dad to their little ones. I want to encourage you, celebrate your efforts, and give you a few little tips for getting through this holiday with your child– especially if they are a little too young to fully grasp the situation.

June is Pride Month and I am celebrating the courage, joy, and IDENTITY of my LGBTQ neighbors and friends. I want to kick off the month by talking a little bit about why Pride Month is so crucial for lgbtq mental health.