Why Your Relationship Feels Like a Battlefield: Understanding Trauma Bonding vs. Secure Attachment in Couples
Relationships matter, however we are often taught from an early age that fighting is life and death and therefore it feels so real and scary. Learning how to co-regulate with the evidenced based approaches is the best way to connect authentically when we have childhood trauma involved.
Bids, Boundaries, and Self-Leadership: A Unified Path to Fulfillment for High-Performing Couples
What are bids you may ask? Emotional or physical attempts to connect with your partner in a meaningful way to each other in unique ways. Many of us need boundaries after realizing our own self-actualized leadership of our parts to allow for that. We take a deep dive of the research on how to effectively attune to each other’s bids for affection and attention, while maintaining a healthy sense of self through boundaries and interdependence.